How many times have I told you to put your hair up!
Ever since Janie and Joe got married, Joe always told Janie what to do. He always brought her down when she wanted to do something. she never had a say on what she thought.
I'm sorry. It won't happen again.
Joe is dying from prescription overdose and he starts to put Janie down. He tells that he hates that Janie looks so young it makes him look bad. He tells Janie to get out but she gains her autonomy and tells him that she never loved him.
I did not leave Logan and come down the road with you to lead a life of bowing down and obedience.
After Joe dies a rumor spreads around that Janie had poisoned him. Janie gathered all he courage and went to his funeral with her hair down. Basically she did every thing that joe would not approve of. she gained her autonomy and she had confidence.