Sasha and Curtis are both at Curtis’s house watching their favorite movie. They were both cuddling and Curtis sat up and spoke his mind about having sex. Everything was calm and they were both ready to talk about it. Sasha considered Curtis’s feelings and could easily see it from his perspective but still wanted to stay true to herself.
Hey babe, can I ask you something?
What is it?
Have you ever thought about the possibility of us having sex? I think I’m ready but I want to make sure you are too before we do it.
I have thought about it but it is not something I am comfortable doing.
Why is that?
I really do not want to get pregnant and I grew up learning that I should not have sex until I am married.
Well you will not get pregnant don’t worry.
But that still goes against my values. Not having sex until marriage is something I value and I want to stay true to myself.
“Is it something that I did? Or is it just me?
No it has nothing to do with you. It is the action itself that I do not want to do; and I know how you feel but you have to understand me.
I mean I guess I understand where you are coming from. So I guess we do not have to.