Tom has encountered a man while he was taking a walk, they started talking and after a great conversation the guy offered Tom weed.
Religious & spiritual values
Tom has three options.He could take the weed and continue the conversation, say no and continue the conversation, say no and run.
Sorry man, I don't do drugs because its unhealthy, bye i'm heading home
If Tom accepts, it could be fun but its also unhealthy, if he says no and continues the conversations, the guy could pressure him into doing it, and if he says no and runs, he could hurt the guy's feelings.
Evaluate & reflect
Tom's beliefs prohibit him from taking drugs, his family wouldn't accept it and neither would Tom himself, so he really doesn't think much about it
Tom chose to say no and leave, which was the best and safest option
At home he felt bad for his new friend because he looked sad, but then he reflected that it was the best choice not to do drugs because it would just bring problems
It was the best choice to leave, he was going to pressure me if I stayed