But I saw him kissing someone else at the coffee shop! HE IS CHEATING!!!
Definition: Refusing to believe or even perceive painful realities.-The wife does not want to accept that her husband is cheating on her and is in denial even though there is PROOF.
NO. HE ISN'T CHEATING! I won't accept it - I trust him. This can't be happening.
DISPLACEMENT
Definition: Shifting sexual or aggressive impulses toward a more acceptable or less threatening object or person.-Erick is projecting his mom's bad day on himself and now is in a bad mood, and ends up being rude to his sister.
Why are you being so mean to me Erick?
Mom got mad at me. SO NOW I'M IN A BAD MOOD!!!!!
Just SHUT UP Era!!!
PROJECTION
Definition: Describing one's own threatening impulses by attributing them to others.-The mom is pressuring Carlos to be the best through projecting her own insecurities of when she was young like him.
But mom you always got B's and C's in school why are you pressuring me so much?!
CARLOS START YOUR HOMEWORK NOW! WHILE YOU LIVE UNDER MY HOUSE YOU WILL TURN OUT TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND INTELLIGENT STUDENT!