Kayla, you planned a birthday party for me? Thank you so much!
Of course, Sam! You're my best friend after all!
Hey guys! I got some beer! Let's liven up this party!
Woo! Let's get drunk!
Assess The Situation
Oh my god, my friends are drinking? I don't wanna do that! I should leave. Shoot, if I DO leave or say no, Kayla will think I'm ungrateful for the party! Ugh!
I value following the laws and I don't wanna risk my safety by getting drunk, but if I say no and leave Kayla may stop being my friend. I don't want to lose her. Though, staying as well as getting home could be dangerous. They don't even know how dangerous this is. I need to tell them and hope they stop. They may not listen, but it's worth a shot.
Brainstorm and consider the consequences and values
Decide & Act
Kayla, I don't want to drink and I don't think that any of you should be drinking either. It's not safe.
I don't want to drink either. Come on, Sam. Let's go watch a movie at my house.
Sam, we're trying to have a good time! Stop ruining the party.
Evaluate: The Next Day
This movie night-turned-sleepover has been the most fun ever! Thanks for getting me out of there last night, Lacey
It was the smartest choice. Apparently Kayla got caught drinking and driving. She lost her license, but is lucky to be alive and uninjured. Watching movies is much better than that.