Maybe I should stop reading these feeds and do my homework... nah this is too much fun.
Habit 5:"Seek first to understand then to be understood"
If I clean my room can i go to the fair with jared.
Earlier that day.
No, but since that's done race you to the super slide.
Hey Danny were those chores fun.
later that day.
Habit one is all about using events that come at you in a positive or negative way and using it to better yourself rather than bring you down.Things like taking responsibility for your choices and always using a past experience to learn and know what to do in the future. You can choose to use proactive language like i'll do it, instead of being reactive. Making proactive choices like improving from past.
Habit 1-In Action
This habit is about knowing what is needed vs. whats wanted and how to prioritize those two things.You have to be able to choose what's best for you. Plan, goal set make sure important stuff is above all don't let peer pressure consume you or wait till the last minute, always plan ahead. Use will-power saying yes to important things and won't-power for time wasters. Letting urgent things control you can be bad because not everything urgent is important.
Habit 3-In Action
Hey man we should totally go to the movies have you heard about it, it's got aliens and they are stuck in space.
That sound so cool but i'm sorry gotta get a rain check on that one i've got a really important project in science and i'm doing so hot.
This habit is about learning to listen. To understand someone you must listen. Don't use poor listening skills like dozing off or pretending to listen. You must listen to expose their soft middles and give them love and understanding to do so. You have two eyes and one mouth so talk less and listen more.
Habit 5-In Action
... and then Sally was saying how she ...
I have used this in the past year after learning to have less arguments stay away from problems occuring and feel better. I have also told my family some of what I learned about this and it has seemed to left an affect. I plan to use this in the future and keep this with me as a way to help better myself.
Just another road rager won't let that ruin my day though.
In the past year I had bought a planner and a calendar writing important stuff down I'd have to deal with first before making other plans. This has put me in situations of turning down invitations but not making me feel left out but rather responsible. I plan to use this in the future as it was vital in keeping me going throughout the year and has also helped academically.
This habit has led me to not only doing more things fun but also helped me understand better and not get to a point of arguing. I have used certain ways to listen more and then that can lead me to getting to go with friends or out somewhere. This has also helped me in getting understood because from learning that when arguing it's just people saying things no listening but now I would choose to listen in and then give intel.