No you're not. Remember that we choose a win-win game or it was going to be a no deal.
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
Ok. Tell me your point of view, before I share mine.
Begin with the End in Mind means developing a clear picture of where you want to go with your life. It also means to decide what your values are and setting goals; it helps turn your dreams into reality. We are free to choose our own paths, which can shape you forever, but we can't choose our consequences. Having a personal mission statement is having a personal motto that states what your life is about, so it is the blueprint of your life.
Habit 2: In Action
Thinking win-win is having an attitude towards life that says we can both win. Having a win-win mindset will fill your heart with happiness and give you more confidence. If you are going to play a game make it a win-win or No Deal; find a way you can both win or don't play at all. Thinking win-win can really change yourself and your life for the better.
Habit 4: In Action
Let's win this together!
Habit 5 talks about how you have to listen first and talk second; you have to see things from another point of view. To understand someone you must listen to them, and the four types of communication are listening, writing, reading, and speaking. To hear what someone is saying you have to listen to what they are not saying; you have to stand in their shoes and try to feel what they feel. After you have understood their point of view, you can seek to be understood.
Habit 5: In Action
Thansk for taking the time to listen to me talk about this. It means a lot to me.
I used to go with the flow and let it take me wherever it is going to take me . Now I choose my own path and make my own decisions. I have a personal mission statement and I DO live by it everyday of my life.
Come on we going this way.
No I'm good, I want to go this way .
I have always had a win-lose mind set because I am overly competitive; I have always believed that only one person can win. Now I try to think win-win and just have fun. I am always happy and confident after I play a win-win kind of game, since everybody wins.
I have always had trouble with listening, I would just keep on talking. So, this past year I have worked on bettering myself by listening more, and talking less. I did learn how to listen better and now I really try to understand the person I'm talking to, before I start talking.
Hey! What's wrong. Wait is it that Jesse. OMG let me tell you what she did to me, after you tell me what happened to you.