trying to avoid this situation as much as possible is the best bet of getting out because if you do it will become a habit and you will damage your future
I dont think I can because I have to babysit and I cant be late or I might get fired.
hey i have good i idea why don't we and buy some beer my friend has a fake ID.
i tripped him just so i could come out in top and be the best.
habit 4 in action
my friend and I were playing basketball and he tripped me just so that he could show off in front of the older kids
habit 5- In action
yea mmmhm sure whatever.
hey so can you come over to my house and study and and make snacks.
This habit has helped me by deciding what i wanna do when i get older. For exsample, what college i wanna attend, what kinda friends i wanna have what outlook i wanna have on life . It can also help when your feeling bad you can begin with then end in mind and go to a place where you feel the most relaxed and visually think.
habit:2 begin with the end in mind
Begin with the end in mind means to think about yourself and how you want your future to like
think win-win has tought me that i can win and so can you. Life is not always about wining and being the best. Its the impact you make on yourself. The way i look at life now is like what college do i wanna attend college.
habit: 4 think win-win
think win-win means i can win and so can you.
this has habit has made me communicate differently because im not always a best listener. Once in a while i will catch myself doing selective listening and i will think back to this habit. If it was not for this habit i would still be comunicating
habit:5 seek first to understand than to be understood.
you have two ears and one mouth for a reason so use it the right way.
Habit 2 is all about you and focusing on you. You have to decide the paths you wanna take in life or someone will choose for you. The crossroads of life the paths to take to be successful in life. What college, what friends you want to have will you do drugs. All those thing matter because it determines your future.
Habit 4 says that I can win and so can you its not just me or just you its both of us. Life is not about competing or getting ahead of others it the lessons we learn from them. The totem pole is a description on how people are winning or losing. So if your at the bottom your a looser. Your at the top you might be the best of all, but you could be physically and emotionally use people just to get there.
Communication is key to everything and that's why people need to be understood than to understand. There are 5 poor listening skills spacing out, pretend listening, selective listening, word listening, and self centered listening. If you lack one of these then you have poor listening skills. All it takes is for you too listen to someone and not criticize them. Doing things that could change a persons life.