Hey, my girls and I are going to sneak into Linda's backyard and throw a massive pool party! And we need your help!
Break into someone's house? That is NOT a good idea; definitely a risky situation. I can see where this is going...
First, I have to say no. If she asks, "why?", I will be honest with her and show my concern for her safety. Offering explanations give reason to refusal.
The thing is, I'm not the most confident person, but I really don't want her to get in trouble. I'll definitely stand tall, make eye contact, and know that what I'm saying is true. Body language is key!
I really think that you shouldn't do that. You could get in trouble, even with the police! I'm just saying this because I care about you. Instead of a pool party, we can hang out at my house if you want.
See? By providing an alternative activity, I helped my friend immensely. Phew!
You were so right. I shouldn't have even thought about the pool. Thanks!