The children should not be punished for the immaturity of the parents who no longer love each other. "So many parents are blind to the fact that when they are trying to hurt their ex, they're really only hurting their child. What a beautiful world it would be if parents truly put their childs well being ahead of their revenge agenda."(Jenna Korf)
Divorce refers to the legal termination of a marriage contract between two people. Couples may also enter into a legal separation, which does not terminate a marriage but dictates the terms under which a couple may live separately and divide custody of children and any shared assets.
Most parents in a divorce forget about the kids well being, and focus more on themselves.
Macy's mom needs to get in a divorce because she is cheating on the dad with her boyfriend. Macy gets caught up in her thoughts because she does not know if she should tell her dad he is getting cheated on. With the parents living in different places Macy doesn't have a father figure to teach her.
"The walls are paper-thin, and Mr.Guest and my mother are loud. But the voices in my head are louder"
Making a divorce over your kids and not about you are vital for the for making them the best and most successful person they could be.
Each year, over 1 million American children suffer the divorce of their parents.
By making the parents stay together it ca better the child's life over the long period of time.
Having an unhealthy relationship can make your kids suffer in life and in school.
It doesn’t matter how often you threatened to get divorced in the past. Once you actually take steps to get divorced, everything changes. You cross a line that can’t be “un-crossed.” Before you do that, make absolutely sure it is what you want to do.
With Macy always thinking about her father and what she should tell him she can not preform to her excellence in school or outside activity's.
American society, through its institutions, must teach core principles: that marriage is the best environment in which to raise healthy, happy children who can achieve their potential and that the Family is the most important institution for social well-being. "The Effects on Divorse on America"
If the two parties’ lawyers cannot agree on child or spousal support, a court determines any future financial obligations. Both child and spousal support are periodic payments that one person makes for an agreed-upon time. "Divorce"
Some people may argue that getting a divorce is not okay, but in the long run it may end up benefiting your family. If you have an unhealthy relatioship it can cause more harm than good to your children.
. By separating it may be hard on your child but in the end it will allow them to have a better life.
So, if you are thinking about getting in a divorce make sure to do the best thing for your kid and not try to seek the best revenge.