Hi sweety! Your friend Sara just asked if you wanted to go to the park with her, but you have a basketball game today. What do you want to do?
Oh no! I don't know what to pick!
Well, you can either go to your basketball game, or you can go with Sara to the park.
And if you go with Sara, you will have a great time with your friend, but miss your basketball game, and they might have to forfeit. But you will miss a fun experience if you go to the basketball game.
Yeah, and if I go to the basketball game, we could win because we only have 4 players going, and if I go we will have enough players.
Well, what is more important to you?
Hmm, being part of a team is more important to me. I want my team to win!
Well then, what are you going to do?
I am going to go to my basketball game!
OMG! I made the winning shot! I am so glad I went!