How you act and react to people often determine you personality, but that is not the only thing that determines it. In every case the environment either chooses the seed or the soil. If the seed is chosen poorly, then the home roots of the plant must be destroyed and a new seed must be chosen. But if the environment chooses the soil, despite the quality of it, the seed can safely grow and acts of kindness and forgiveness are possible. Which has it chosen for you?