Others creating fear can make you do what they want you to.
Not all girls have to be feminine to be a girl.
Helping others in scary situations is a basis for morality.
Scout: "Halfway through the collards I tripped; as I tripped the roar of a shotgun shattered the neighborhood."
Mrs. Henry Lafayette Dubose: ..."what are you doing in those overalls? You should be in a dress and camisole, young lady! You'll grow up waiting on tables if somebody doesn't change your ways-a Finch waiting on tables at the O.K. Cafe-hah!"
"The rifle cracked. Tim Johnson leaped, flopped over and crumbled on the sidewalk in a brown-and-white heap. He didn't know what hit him."