It's when he feels down and has no belief in himself
He finally decided to be a man.
"children see things very well sometimes -- and idealist is even better" Asagi is trying to support Benatha. But Benatha doesn't see that Asagi is trying to help her. She was stressed out over the money that is gone and Asagi has been through hard times so he knows what she is gong through.
"Its when he's at his lowest and can't believe hisself". Benatha disowned her brother for his past mistakes and how they affected the family. In this mama hears her and she wasn't happy about what was said about her brother and talks with her. Lena tries to teach Benatha about loving family if they are at their lowest and if their decisions aren't that good. This shows that you should always be there and care for family no matter what they go through.
"He finally came into his manhood today" Ruth began to notice that Walter has change from who he used to be. Throughout the book Walter has changed for the better of the family. Walter changed so he is now a better role model for the family for his mistakes.