Abbie, you've been spending a lot of time on your phone. Whats on there that is so fascinating?
Conflict is escalating because Abbie is feeling accused.
Give me your phone!
I want to know what you've been up to.
Why? Don't you trust me?
Jordyn is listening and understanding where Abbie is coming from.
Oh no! I don't want her to think I don't trust her!
Okay mom. I will.
I do trust you. Just promise me you are making smart decision.
One week later...
Jordyn was able to understand that it habe been and invasion of privacy. Abbie was able to understand that Jordyn was just worried about her. Together they were able to understand each other and resolve their conflict.