Annie, I think its time for you to close your umbrella.
here's what i think. When its raining, you put up an umbrella right? So you wont get wet
i guess so
But say you're walking for a long time, holding your umbrella high up in the air to protect you against the rain. If you're too busy worrying about not getting wet, or just thinking about something else entirely, you may not even notice that its stopped raining. So there you are, with your umbrella still open above you, and there's no rain at all. You may not be getting wet, but you're missing the sunshine.
ok but that still doesn't make sense.
well if you spend all your time worrying, and thinking about helments, and band-aids, and ebola and gangrene and bee stings then you wont have time to worry about Jared.
its easier to be worried than to be sad.. so you use worrying as a sort of protection
well that's the thing, you dont need that protection anymore. Because the sun is starting to shine again... and if you keep an umbrella you'll never get to see it.