Femininity- we have to love each other for our personalities, not the way someone should act.
Race- you should not judge people just based on their race
Growing Up- you have to accept you a person is, even if they change
SCOUT (talking to herself): "Aunt Alexandra was fanatical on he subject of my attire. I could not possibly hope to be a lady if I wore breeches...I should be a ray of sunshine in my father's lonely life."
SCOUT: "Cal," I asked, "why do you talk n-talk to the--to your folks when you know it's not right?"
CALPURNIA: "Baby," said Calpurnia, "I just can't help it if Mister Jem's growin' up. He's gonna want to be off to himself a lot now, doin' whatever boys do, so you just come right on in the kitchen when you feel lonesome..."