Dear 9.5, My friend and I had a disagreement and I don't know how to solve it. It all began about two days ago when my friend misunderstood something I said and took it the wrong way. She originally ignored me, not listening to my side of the story. Then she went and told some others in our group, now they all glare at me when they walk past. I tried speaking to one of them about but they just changed the subject. After a few weeks, my friend approached me to try and apologise. But after all that she did to me, I decided to ignore her and walk away. Recently, I have been avoiding them at all costs. Although I miss their friendship I don't know if I should forgive her or not. Please help me! I don't know what to do! From Kate.
What are some Conflict Mismanagements evident in this story?
Non-negotiation - This method involves refusing to listen to the other's point of view. Blame - This method involves the headspace that it is the other person's fault. Avoidance - This method removes you from the conflict or shutting it out
Answer in the script ()
5 Tips to avoid conflict mismanagement
Example story of conflict mismanagment.
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Ask audience what mismanagement they say?
5 simple tips to avoid mismanagement. Read in script