This is an example of permissive parenting. The child is controlling the rules and making the mom change her mind.
The dad is telling his daughter to straighten her hair, but she doesn't understand. The dad expects perfect obedience with no questions asked.
Oh my gosh! What did you do?!
I decided to change my look.
Um. Okay. Can you at least wear a hoodie?
No! I don't want to! This is me and you are not going to suppress me!!!
Your right. I'm sorry. Do you need a ride?
I told you to straighten your hair!
I don't understa-
You don't need to understand, you just need to do what I tell you.
No. I told you the rules and your going to follow them.