Crossing Boundaries in Relationships

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Lesson Plan Overview

We all set up our own boundaries in life. Sometimes we do it without even thinking about it until we see someone cross them. Introducing an activity to challenge student boundaries is a great prequel to this storyboard activity and will give your students ideas on what to create.

An example exercise is called "peer to peer". Have students find a peer and stand next to them. Ask them to perform fist to fist, which is when they ’fist bump’. Next ask them to perform ‘shoulder to shoulder’, which is when they lean on each other’s shoulders. Finally, ask them to perform ‘forehead to forehead’. This is when you’ll see almost every student stop, say something, or show body language showing where their personal boundaries are. This exercise will help them create the boundary expectations in the storyboard.

In this activity, students will create an illustration of what crossing a boundary looks like, sounds like, and feels like. The purpose of this storyboard activity is to allow students to think about their actions, read body language, recognize and understand verbal cues in real scenarios.


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Student Instructions

Create a storyboard showing what crossing a boundary sounds like, looks like, and feels like using example scenarios.

  1. Click "Start Assignment".
  2. Title the row ‘Boundaries’ and label the appropriate cells with ‘Looks Like’, ‘Sounds Like’ and ‘Feels Like’.
  3. Create an example scenario where a boundary is being crossed in the cell using a combination of school-appropriate scenes, characters, and items.


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How Tos about Crossing Boundaries in Relationships

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Encourage open conversations about personal boundaries in your classroom

Openly discussing boundaries helps students feel respected and safe. Creating a space for honest conversation encourages empathy and understanding among peers.

2

Model respectful language when talking about boundaries

Demonstrate how to use kind, direct language when discussing personal comfort levels. Students will feel more confident expressing themselves when they see respectful communication in action.

3

Facilitate role-play scenarios to practice boundary-setting

Guide students in acting out common situations where boundaries may be tested. Role-play builds skills for real-life interactions and helps students respond appropriately.

4

Praise students for recognizing and respecting boundaries

Call attention to moments when students notice and respect each other's boundaries. Positive reinforcement encourages this behavior and strengthens a healthy classroom culture.

5

Offer private check-ins for students needing extra support

Let students know they can speak with you privately if they are uncomfortable or unsure about boundaries. Personal support helps every student feel heard and cared for.

Frequently Asked Questions about Crossing Boundaries in Relationships

What is a boundary in relationships for high school students?

Boundaries in relationships are personal limits that help students define what is comfortable and acceptable in how others treat them. They can be physical, emotional, or social, and are key for building healthy, respectful connections with peers.

How can teachers introduce activities about crossing boundaries in the classroom?

Teachers can start with interactive exercises like peer-to-peer activities, where students physically demonstrate comfort levels (e.g., fist bump, shoulder to shoulder, forehead to forehead). This helps students recognize and discuss personal boundaries in a safe, structured way.

What does crossing a boundary look, sound, and feel like in a school setting?

Crossing a boundary might look like invading personal space, sound like unwanted teasing, and feel uncomfortable or upsetting. Recognizing these cues helps students understand and respect each other's boundaries.

Why is it important for students to learn about boundaries in healthy relationships?

Learning about boundaries helps students build trust, communicate needs, and avoid misunderstandings or conflicts. It is essential for fostering healthy, respectful relationships both in and out of school.

What is a simple lesson plan for teaching about crossing boundaries in high school?

Start with a boundary-challenging activity (like peer-to-peer exercises), then have students create a storyboard showing what crossing a boundary looks, sounds, and feels like using real-life scenarios. This encourages discussion and empathy.

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