Maya never listens to me. I am just trying to protect her.
WHY IS OUR RELATIONSHIP SO COMPLICATED???
Why doesn't my mom understand things aren't the same as they were when she was my age?
Maya, go put some longer pants on. We have men coming over.
I shouldn't have to change because of a man! If they are weird they should not be in our house!
I just want to protect Maya from the same trauma I faced. I hope she understands.
Do as I say. Now!
Why is my mother always so hard on me? It's so draining, and makes me feel sad.
Maya I need you to cook dinner tonight because I have to work late.
Why do I always have to cook dinner, mom? Why can't my older brother do it? I feel like you put so pressure on me, and it's starting to affect me mentally.
I'm sorry Maya. I just want to protect you, and teach you what my mother taught me. It's a new time though, I should listen more. We can start to learn from each other.
Thank you for listening mom. I know it's going to be hard, but listening is always a start.