Do you want to come to Andrew's party tonight? There's going to be alcohol.
No thanks, Susan I don't drink.
I really don't want Susan to go to a party that her parent's don't know about. OK, Susan is going to a party with alcohol and she is underage. But her parents think she is coming over to my house.
Assess The Information
I need to brainstorm some ideas to make Susan stay. Well, I could convince her not the go. Or Tell her parents. Or just let her go.
If I tell her parents then I would be a bad friend. But if I didn't tell them then she would get in trouble. If I let her go then she might get addicted to alcohol. But if I let her go then she will miss out.
I need to consider the consequences and values. If she stays she doesn't get in trouble but if she goes then she will get in trouble.
Consider the consequences and values
Ok, I won't go. I think it's for the best.
Susan, I really want you to stay. Don't go to the party, you would get in a lot of trouble.
Decide and Act
Wow, good thing we didn't go to the party. The cops showed up and it got busted.