Did you hear about the party later there is going to be a lot of alcohol and drugs.
Man I really want to go to that party but there is going to be drugs and I don't want to get pressured into them.
Okay i'll let you know if I can go later .
Hey man you better come to that party because your kinda lame and no one wants to be friends with a boring person.
Okay I have three options here. I go to the party and do drugs. I'll stay friends with people and they will think i'm cool. But the drugs will harm my body so that's a con. I go to the party and I won't do drugs. People might want to be friends with me because I still went to the party. But a con for that is they'll think i'm lame for not doing drugs with them. Option three is I don't go to the party and I stay safe by not taking drugs without know how they will affect me that is a pro of not going. A con is I won't have friends and they'll think i'm lame.
I want to go the party but i'm not. It is safer for me not to go because I don't want to get peer pressured into drugs. If i was with people at the party and someone took a picture of me with someone using drugs people could assume I was doing it to. So this is the safer option
At the end of the day I made a smart and safe decision by thinking about the consequences and the outcome. I can make new friends if those other people don't want to be friends.