I can't stand it when my parents keep forcing me to take college classes while I am still in high school. They are ruining my time to be a teenager!
I can understand why that would be difficult. Have you expressed your concerns to your parents?
No, because they never listen to me! They are stubborn and think that only they know what's best for me.
What if your parents agreed to let you speak without interrupting, what are some things you might say to them?
Well, that would be amazing if they let me talk.
Let's pretend they are sitting in the room with us, what kinds of things might you say?
Well, Mom and Dad, I feel like you are ruining my time as a teenager because you keep pushing me to take college classes, and I don't want to do that right now.
Go ahead, they are listening now and have agreed to let you talk.
Oh, okay. Ummmm, I feel like you want what is best for me, but I feel like you aren't hearing me.
I love that you used the I feel at the beginning. This lets the other person know how they are impacting you without blaming them. How can you continue with those types of statements?
Yes, I think I can do that. I want them to know how I feel. Thank you! That helped me process through what I might say.
I am so proud of you for being brave in that role-play. Do you think you would want to try this in real life?
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