When a partner is making you feel insecure and unstable in order to manipulate you, it is definitely a red flag, and it serve as an alarm to wake up and leave the relationship. In the situation above, it is clear that this man doesn't want to do some "favor" that is partner is asking of him. However, his partner is not respecting his choice and is instead making him feel insecure, so he eventually complies.
You're already ugly and lame, and I'm just asking you for a little favor. I wish you were more like Usher. He is so fine. YOU DON"T EVEN HAVE ABS!!!
When an ultimatum is posed, that is when the relationship should end. In this situation, this man would be better off if he just left the relationship. He would feel happier and more relieved if he wasn't faced with such pressure from his partner.
BUT I DON"T FEEL COMFORTABLE!!! I'M NOT READY!!!!
FINE, EITHER THAT OR WE'RE DONE!!!
A few minutes later...
Sexual and emotional abuse is extremely dangerous and it is sad that 81% of women and 43% of men nationwide suffer through such traumatizing experiences and some point in their life. Ideally, this young man here should have left the relationship when he was feeling uncomfortable with what his partner was saying.