The first step is to reach out to her, if you're blocked then don't do anything and leave it alone. If you are not blocked it might be a good idea to reach out to her. Make sure she knows that the reason you test is not to get back together or anything of the sorts.
But she's so scary.
Then you're not hungry for it.
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The second step in all of this is to recognize what you did wrong, most people don't break up for no reason. If you're confident you did nothing wrong and she's the one at fault, I recommend you don't speak to her. Let her hate you all she wants; you did nothing wrong anyways.
I think I did do something wrong.
Then let her know you recognize and you're sorry about it. If you're desperate for her to not hate you, then I also recommend stroking her ego and making yourself small.
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The third step is to actually text her. Always assume she doesn't want anything to do with you. Word it as if you're absolutely miserable but do not make it poetic because she might post the screenshot to TikTok.
What's the fourth step?
The fourth step is to just wait for her response. The fifth step will depend on what she says if she says anything at all.