From a very early age, Holly felt different from the other "normal" children at school.
Holly would often try and finish her class work early, to go and help in the Support Classes. Holly never really fit in with the children in her own class.
Holly would spend her lunch and recess times with the children from the Support Classes, in their segregated play areas, as she felt a connected.
Holly was very sick for many years and spent a lot of time at the doctors in the search for a diagnosis.The symptoms just didn't add up.
At 25, Holly was finally diagnosed with ESD (Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome) and although it was a releif to have a diagnosis,Holly was not comfortable with being labelled disabled.
Holly didn't want to accept the label of being disabled or having a disability. She would not use mobility aids and just saw herself as chronically ill.
Autism month
At 27 Holly had another devastating blow, she was then diagnosed with Autism.This was hard news to take, but parts of her life started to make sense........
Holly now understood why she never felt connected to people at school and why she always felt a little different to everyone else. Holly went through a stage of grieving for the able bodied person she was, but this was the start of her emotional metamorphosis.
After Holly went through the grieving process, she found herself and she found love! She now has a husband and two children, all with Autism.
Holly now sees her disabilities, not as accessories, not a part of her, but simply her. They affect how she walks, talks, eats, communicates, socialises and experiences the world.Now she has taken ownership of being Disabled and celebrates it.
Now when Holly is out in public and she is using her walking stick, her wheel chair or even her noise cancelling headphones, she is a proud woman and a disability advocate.
Holly's culture is the Disability Culture and she couldn't be happier.