Hello, I am Dr Charles. Recently, we lost Daisy's parents in a road accident. As their doctor, I tried to save them, but the injuries were severe. It is unfortunate that they succumbed to their injuries. Daisy is left alone, sad, and in despair. She is undergoing a grieving moment. Mourning is a natural process, especially when we lose our loved ones. It is natural for her to feel alone and abandoned.
I don't know what to do, I don't know where to go. They were my everything, and now I have lost them. I feel lost, sad, and angry. Why did they have to go? I don't have anyone to take care of me, it is so painful. My father and mother were everything to me, and now I have no one.I am stuck,how can I live without them? I don't know where to begin on my own. Everything around me does not make sense. Their death does not make sense to me. Why did it have to be me?
Daisy is confronted with reality. She understands that she has to step up and be there for her younger brother. Though her parents' departure saddens her, she understands the challenges that come with it. She has to step up and confront the painful experience. She is coming to terms with the situation. As Freud states in his description of mourning, it reaches a point when an individual feels motivated to participate in the external world. Daisy is coming to this realization. She understands that life has to go on. She has a younger brother who looks up to her. She is taking charge of her situation.
Whatever Daisy is going on is a natural process. She is in deep pain, and experiencing a sense of denial. She has not yet come to terms with the loss of her parents. While death is part of life, she still questions why it happened to her. The death of her parents is definitely a huge loss for her, especially since she depended on them on everything. It is unfortunate that it happened to her, but what she is experiencing is a change process. Feeling the pain, and living in the moment, is part of the process of coming to terms with the adversity.Sigmund Freud, in examining the process of mourning states that one has to feel the pain, and undergo the process of change to come to terms with the adversity.
What can I do? What would my life be without them? I am confused. Where should I begin? I don't have the experience they had.They did everything for me. How will I tell my young brother? Will he understand?I do not have the answers. How I wish mother could have been here. She would know what to do. She always knows what to do.Whenever I was sad, she would say something to me that would make me feel good again. I am lost, I don't know what to do.
Daisy is brainstorming. She imagines a life without her parents. She is unsure of whether she can manage it on her own. But remember, this is just a process to acceptance.She will get it together in due process.
It has been weeks since father and mother left us. Their loss saddens me; I am yet to come to terms with it. My brother is still asking questions; sometimes, I do not know how to comfort him. Sometimes I sleep with my bedroom door open, waiting for them to kiss me good night, but they do not come.
I want mummy. Why is she not coming home. I miss daddy.
Father and Mother have gone. They are in a better place now. I am certain that they would want me to be strong. I have to show them that I can take care of my brother well. They depend on me now, and I know they want us to be happy.I have to fulfill their dream. I must move on .
Daisy has come to terms with the death of her parents. She has reached the acceptance stage. It is important in the process of mourning.