Hey its your friend from school! i was wondering if you wanted to hang out at your house tomorrow after school if you don't mind telling me where you live.
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hmm, she didn't tell me in school she was going to text me, maybe she forgot?
Examine your options
it would be nice to hangout to do school work, i'm not sure. ill just tell her i'm busy.
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Consider the outcome
if i don't tell her she might think i don't like her and shes not my friend, she will tell people i'm a bad person..
what if it wasn't her asking, i gave away where i live to someone i don't even know..
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Mia thinks her friend from school had forgotten to tell her she was going to send her a text when she arrived from school.
Identify your values
if i do tell her she will think i am truly her friend and we will get to hang out more and talk more
if i don't want to put location out there i will not send her where i live i should maybe wait.
were heading out mie, the food is downstairs
mia zooms out and thinks about the choices she has in this situation.
Decide and act
mia: ill tell you tomorrow in a note when were in class if you don't mind, i have more time tomorrow too!
while mia has turned off her phone, she think of the pros and cons of the situation.
Evaluate the decision
while her friend wait for mia to answer she thought what can happen if she does tell her or if she doesn't.
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after the thinking she went thru mia decided to take the safer path and tell her the next at school.
fiend : yea its alright, we can also do more thing with more time!
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pizza
while in lunch bella did say she had forgotten to tell her the previous day and then mia gave her the note and thinking that it was better to put her safety first.
oh sweet! i didn't think you would recognize, i completely forgot to tell you i was going to text you so sorry if you thought it was someone else.
hey bella here the direction to where i live so we can hangout later, i didn't send it cause i didn't think it was going to be you.