Obviously my practice was good Amy, I am so good at it!
Well, I hate her
Being Stereotypical
I don't really like sewing. I like soccer!
What are you doing in a field full of boys? You should stay at home with your mom and learn sewing
She is so weak!
Being ignorant and illogical
Being a girl does not make me weak automatically. Soccer is all about passion and practice
Soccer is best for physically strong boys like me, not for girls
Joseph and Amy are both 12 years old and go to the same school. Joseph plays soccer and he is very proud about it. He is trying to dominate Amy through his body language and showing that he is superior because he is a guy and on top of that he plays soccer
Role of parent's
I always play soccer with my dad and I get all the rules very well
Joseph is thinking girls shouldn't be playing soccer and it's only for the men to play. He thinks girls should stay at home and learn sewing with their mother. Joseph is being very stereotypical and he is implying what he has been taught and seen in front of him
Abusive Thoughts
Joseph, we should play soccer someday together.
I really feel like punching her but this is public place, so I can't do that. How dare that she wants to play with me?
Us human beings have a tendency to turn a conversation towards ourselves and this is evident above. Joseph is trying to express that he is strong and thus good at soccer. Joseph is not thinking outside of the box but Amy is trying to explain Joseph by crossing the boundary between gender stereotypes
Anyways Joseph, I will see you another day
Usually parents treats boys and girls differently and usually they also follow typical stereotypical norms. But in this case Amy's parents are breaking the barrier and treating Amy as a child rather than a son/daughter. On the other side, Joseph doesn't see that in his house. He thinks sports are only meant for men and dad's should never play soccer with their daughter. He is learning and implementing what he is seeing.
You are lying! Dad's only play soccer with their sons. My dad never plays with my sister.
Joseph is trying to prove verbally that he is powerful both physcally and socially. This box also shows how men physically abuse woman or at least want to do so. At a very young age, Joseph learnt that hitting others is a crime and he also learnt that he should do it privately. He never learnt that abuse in the first place is not the right thing to do. This box shows men's physical power over woman.
No Amy, I only play with boys. I love to compete with my male friends who got similar physical ability as I do
Throughout their conversation, Amy has always been polite and Joseph has stayed pretty negative throughout. In the society woman are always expected to act nicely whereas men can act however the way they want to talk. These type of sociological acceptance lead to gender inequality and a certain type of sexist mentality amongst young boys/men.