This is the 6th stage intimacy vs isolation. In this stage Bobby see's if he can become close with others but still maintain sense of self. His positive reaction gives him love, companionship, and partnership.
During college I met your grandma. We dated for several years before eventually getting married and buying our own house together. Since the beginning she bring great joy in my life.
This is the 7th stage generatively vs stagnation. During this Bobby see's if he can love beyond himself and nurture the next generation. The positive response gives Bobby feelings of accomplishment and satisfaction. This is also Maslow's hierarchy of needs with love. This means love gave him motivation for his family.
About 10 years I had your father Ricky. I spent as much time with him as possible and did my very best to give him the best childhood. Me and your father were inseparable and he was always by my side,
This is the finale stage integrity vs.despair. In this stage Bobby finds out of the deal with the end of the majority of his life and how he copes with it. Because of the positive response of loving it Bobby will have a satisfaction with his life and feel like he accomplished his objectives in life.
That right there was my life. I loved every bit of it and wouldn't wish i could have been anyone else in the world but me.