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Language and social skills are continuously a focus in a young child’s development. Sharing toys, taking turns, using words instead of pushing; these abstract ideas can be difficult topics to teach. But we forget sometimes, and the research has shown young children learn through play and interaction. With a quick review of milestones and some tangible, engaging, developmentally appropriate ideas to practice, parents and teachers can help to support these skills in young children both typically developing and with special needs.

Development Milestones

Children develop at their own pace, but within an average range, reach developmental milestones. These are important guidelines (and they ARE guidelines, no child just gets up and starts walking because they turned one) to help parents and caregivers understand what to expect and support. Pediatricians also track these milestones during checkups. If you have concerns, make sure to talk to them first. For children with delays or special needs, simply meet them where they are and work on the next step, using adaptations where needed. Here’s a quick review with some ideas to work into your everyday play.

Between 6-9 months, a baby will start playing with language, stringing together vowel sounds “ah-eh-oh”. They’re also smiling spontaneously and in response to social interactions, so make sure you’re getting on the floor during tummy time and making faces and sounds with them! Babies are also starting to show preference and reaching towards items they want; this is a great time to promote language by bringing the item they want to your face and labeling it: “I see you’re reaching for the cup! You want the cup!” Faces are immensely important, promoting social growth and interactions as well as language, so starting these skills early is important for both caregivers and babies to get the practice in.

At 12-18 months, the baby, now turned toddler, starts to know familiar objects (phone, brush, spoon) and says or shakes head “no” (think of that preference at nine months getting stronger every day). They probably also have several simple single words “mama”, “dada”, “cup”, “me”. Toddlers should be pointing to show something interesting (Plane? Dog?) and showing affection for familiar adults. Point out interesting items on a walk to the park or coming home from school. Keep practicing bringing items or pictures of songs/food to your face to label and promote using words instead of just pointing! The more times the child sees the word formed, the more likely they are to imitate it.

Song Cards

You can use song cards with Velcro or magnets on the back and leave them in an area you and the child play in regularly (kitchen, circle time, rug at school). Bring two pictures up to either side of your face and ask the child, “Do you want ‘Twinkle Twinkle’ or ‘Row Your Boat’?” Bringing the card to your face promotes eye contact and social interaction to request. Follow their eye gaze or point and label the choice that they made. “You pointed to ‘Row Your Boat’! Great. We’re going to sing ‘Row Your Boat’. Ready, set, go!”

Routine Chart and First/Then Board

By 18-24 months, these little people start to know some body parts and follow simple instructions such as, “Put the block in the box”. Socially, toddlers are beginning to copy both peers and adults and show independence, especially in eating, building, or daily routines such as brushing teeth. Some fun ways to work on these activities are playing imitation songs and games while putting items on your head, knees, and feet and inviting the child to try it too. Music and visual cues are a great support for fighting that toddler independence. Routine charts support independence while allowing adults to keep the day moving without getting stuck.


Emotion Face Activity - Printable

Three year old children start to understand more difficult nuances of language such as prepositions “in”, “on”, and “under”. They also understand more diverse feelings. Socially, they are learning to show affection and concern for a friend and how to take turns in games. Visual reminders can be helpful in practicing these skills, such as using cartoon faces to change the way they feel and feeling charts to express different emotions for themselves or their friends.




Use the blank face printable to play games with kids about emotions or facial features. Using play-dough or printouts from pictures, ask children to make happy/sad/angry/frustrated/etc. faces. You can talk about a time they felt that way and how they handled it.


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Short Story, Mix and Match Sequencing

When a child is four years old, they are beginning to tell stories, though there might not be a clear beginning, middle, and ending. They are also still learning to discriminate between real and make-believe, so those stories could get very interesting! Help creative kids (or quiet kids, or any kids, really) tell their story through pictures, either hand-drawn or on a child-friendly platform, while you write down their words to tell their own story. You can also work on sequencing by mixing up pictures of a beginning, middle, and ending and asking the child to sort them.


By five, kids are telling simple stories using full sentences. Socially, they want to please and be like friends, so it’s extra important to model positive language and turn taking. Pull out those visual supports as reminders for turn taking, routine, and rules.

Pictures help children, especially young children or children with special needs, learn/practice language and social skills. By meeting a child at their current level and supporting their development with creative, engaging interventions, these skills can be cultivated and expanded to use in everyday situations. Remember to play and have fun with the skills and they will, too.


More Resources and Ways to Practice Important Skills

Birth to Three

  • Song Cards
  • Labeling Cartoon Feelings / Coloring Pages

Three to Five

  • Simple Social Stories
  • Emotion Chart: “Today I Feel”
  • Matching or Concentration Game

Five to Ten


How to Effectively Integrate Language Development Activities into Social Skills Instruction

1

Identify Targeted Language Skills

Identify the specific language skills that students need to develop or improve within the context of social skills instruction. Consider areas such as vocabulary, sentence structure, expressive language, receptive language, and language pragmatics.

2

Align Language Development Activities with Social Skills

Explore various language development activities that align with the targeted social skills. Examples may include vocabulary-building exercises, language games, storytelling, role-playing scenarios, or discussions related to social situations.

3

Integrate Language and Social Skills Instruction

Design lessons that seamlessly integrate language development activities with social skills instruction. Ensure that language-focused tasks directly support the acquisition and application of social skills, fostering meaningful connections between the two domains.

4

Scaffold Language Learning

Scaffold language learning by providing appropriate support for students at different proficiency levels. Offer vocabulary aids, sentence frames, visual supports, or graphic organizers to facilitate comprehension and expression during social skills activities.

5

Provide Opportunities for Practice

Create ample opportunities for students to practice language skills within social contexts. Engage them in collaborative activities, group discussions, role-plays, or real-life scenarios where they can apply the targeted language skills in meaningful interactions.

6

Provide Feedback and Reinforcement

Offer constructive feedback to students, highlighting both their language development and successful application of social skills. Use specific examples to reinforce correct language usage and encourage continued growth in both areas.

Frequently Asked Questions about Strategies to Support Language and Social Skills in Young Children

How can language skills affect social skills?

Language skills can have a significant impact on social skills. The ability to communicate effectively, use appropriate tone and body language, and understand others' perspectives are all crucial components of strong social skills. Students with strong language skills are better equipped to express themselves, build relationships, and navigate social situations successfully. On the other hand, students with weak language skills may struggle with communication, have difficulty making friends, and experience social isolation. Therefore, developing language skills is a critical component of fostering positive social skills.

How can teachers help students improve their language and social skills?

Teachers play an essential role in helping students improve their language and social skills. Some effective strategies include encouraging students to participate in class discussions, providing feedback on their communication style, introducing new vocabulary words, and modeling positive social interactions. Teachers can also create a supportive classroom environment that values open communication and collaboration, and provide opportunities for students to work together in groups or pairs. Additionally, teachers can incorporate social and emotional learning (SEL) activities into their curriculum, which can help students develop important social and communication skills, such as empathy, active listening, and conflict resolution. By using these strategies, teachers can help students improve their language and social skills, leading to stronger relationships, better communication, and increased academic success.

How can parents and caregivers support the development of language and social skills in their children?

Parents and caregivers can play a critical role in supporting the development of language and social skills in their children. Some effective strategies include encouraging their children to engage in conversations, read books, listen to music, play with others, and seek out social opportunities. Parents and caregivers can also model positive social interactions and communication skills themselves, as children often learn by observing and imitating others. It's also important for parents and caregivers to provide opportunities for their children to interact with individuals from different cultures and backgrounds, which can help them develop empathy and perspective-taking skills. Additionally, praising and encouraging their children's progress can help build their confidence and motivation to continue developing their language and social skills. By using these strategies, parents and caregivers can help their children develop the critical language and social skills they need to succeed academically, socially, and in life.

What are some common language and social barriers that students may face?

Students may struggle with social anxiety, lack of confidence, language differences, cultural barriers, and communication disorders. It's important to identify these barriers and provide support and resources to help children overcome them.

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